Archive for March, 2009

Our growing boy

We had our first parent-teacher conference last week.  Aidan’s preschool teachers like to meet with the parents in the spring and talk about your child’s development.

We were so pleased at our meeting. They said he keeps up well physically with all the other kids and is always willing to try new things. He interacts with all of the other children and is having one on one play with many of them. He is really good about coming to the teacher and specifically asking for help when he needs help with something. They say he is relaxed and has a good time while he is there.

They also commented that they feel he knows a lot about a lot of different subjects and feel that cognitively he is among the brightest. They also said he is starting to ask questions in earnest and he seems right on track in terms of that milestone.

Some areas they are working on with him are taking turns better, expressing frustration better, and sharing. They noted they are working with almost all of the kids on this. :-) We did talk a bit about attention issues since I am concerned about those. They feel it is too early at age 3 to decipher what is truly attentional and what is a busy 3 year old boy but they are keeping an eye out for me since they know it is a concern.

I had wondered if it was wise to keep him back and have him repeat the “3’s” year next year since he only will have completed half of it and using his adjusted age he wouldn’t have been eligible to even be there this year. But both teachers felt like Aidan right now is thriving off of being the youngest and having the older kids to emulate. So they are recommending sending him off the 4’s class this fall.  All in all, a great report for a kid that is younger than everybody else in his class and is a preemie who had to be a bit socially isolated in his first couple of years for health reasons.

Following are a lot of cute pictures taken over the last week. 

Evidence of Aidan’s first “girlfriend” at preschool.  :-)

Uh oh...Aidan already has a girlfriend at preschool!

Some shots of Aidan with Catherine’s dog, Bela.  So sweet!

Sweet puppyBela is getting sleepy in the sunThe thinkerGo ahead and give me a kissI love BelaWhat's going on BelaEye to eyeHug for BelaA very patient dogCracking up at BelaA little sleepy myselfMy not so little boy

And some outdoor shots of some our first spring park outings.  He was so exhausted from a morning at preschool and an afternoon at the park that he fell asleep on the way home.  But he wouldn’t let go of the two pinecones he picked up.

Working the excavator in the sandboxGotta slide of courseSliding down the pole is fun tooPassed out from playing hard at preschool and then at the park

Oh, and he now not only wants to do EVERYTHING by himself, he wants to do things for us too.  Check him out brushing Daddy’s teeth.  :-)

Brushing Daddy's teeth

Child of many faces

Bad blogger.  But I have a really good excuse.  My whole family has been sidelined by one of the worst GI bugs I have seen.  Aidan brought it home and got sick first about 9 days ago.  Lots of vomiting that finally led to his pediatrician giving him some Zofran which helped him turn the corner.  The first day was so miserable for him.  He vomited at least 20 times.  Probably more.  Brandon next.  He actually fared the “best” and was only down for about two days.  I thought somehow I had dodged the bullet when I made it through the week with no symptoms.  But in the wee hours of Sunday morning, I couldn’t sleep…with a sleeping pill on board.  My body was on high alert.

It wasn’t pretty.  I lost so much fluid that by 4 a.m. I was crying and waking up my husband.  He came into the bathroom to check on me and I told him I had almost passed out.  Twice.  Off to the ER I went where I got Zofran, Dilaudid, and 3 bags of IV fluid.  Now that is dehydrated.  Felt very tired Monday.  Sort of ok most of Tuesday and then the second part of the illness hit.  Massive fluid loss again, leading to another ER visit this a.m. and another bag and a half of fluid. 

Gratefully I am on the mend.

In some lighter news, Aidan has taken a very keen interest in emotions lately.  Talking about what mood people are in, guessing what a character’s face in a book is expressing, and asking us to show him certain emotions.  He will ask, “Show me angry.  Show me excited.”  And so on and so on.  It is beyond cute.  He looks at us very intently and then makes his version of each face.

Brandon captured him doing this tonight and I had to post it.  I didn’t know that 3 year olds thought like this.  Very, very cool.

Aidan’s angry faces.

Angry face 1Angry face 2

Aidan’s surprised face.

Surprised face

Aidan’s sad face.

Sad face

And the best….his happy face. 

Happy face