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I am painfully aware that I am far from a perfect parent, but I am always a little sad when I see a parent who doesn’t seem to know how to let loose and have fun with their child. Story upcoming. Let me set the stage.

We have had a great week here in Seattle as far as the weather goes.  It was in the high 70’s and it was perfect weather for sneaking in a few more glorious days outside at the park.  I went online and found some parks we had not yet been to in the area.  I get bored going to the same ones time after time.

We went to one park on Thursday afternoon and then different ones on Friday morning and then Friday evening when Brandon got home.  Aidan is in his element outside.  He loves to have the freedom to run freely.  He really seems to love the open space.  I have heard that children learn differently just from playing outside and I don’t doubt it a bit.

On Friday morning, we found a park with a sandbox.  Wow, does Aidan love sandboxes!  Here comes the thing I can’t believe I heard at a playground.

Mom to boy about 2 years old who is picking up bark and scooping sand with his hands, “Eww!!!  Don’t do that!  That is dirty!  Come over to the swings.”

Ummm…SERIOUSLY?   I had to exercise a lot of self restraint not to blurt out, “You do know you brought him to a playground, don’t you?”  Yikes.  I feel sorry for a kid who is not allowed to explore and get dirty when he is playing outside.  Isn’t that part of the point?

Here are some cute pictures from our recent outdoor adventures.

A peekaboo through a tunnel on the playground equipment.

A really tall slide he LOVED.

I loved this picture because he was going back and forth on this little “bridge” several times letting both his hands graze the bars and listening to the musical noise he made while going across. I love watching children explore and learn like that.

Showing Dad some of his climbing skills.

Fun in the sandbox.

He gets such grownup looks sometimes when he is thinking. Brandon captured this gem.

We ended the Friday of park outings with a trip to Red Robin. By the end, Aidan was resting on Brandon and telling me “I’m so tired.” I actually managed to tire him out! Pat me on the back!